I think it is kind of telling that not one of us gets invited out for drinks after work or included in any after-work activities. I know they should be able to pick whoever they want to hang out with, but it’s not like they are all old buddies. A new white guy can start work on a Thursday and he’s invited to go for drinks on Friday but there are at least 10 regulars that are Black or First Nations or Chinese or even just women who have been here for a year or more of us and not one of us has ever been invited. And then there are all of the sick jokes they tell when they’ve been out about somebody that had big tits or something. They only do that when they know we can hear. I remember a few months ago I mentioned something about my kids, and some of the guys asked me if I knew their baby daddies, and if all of them had different daddies. I have been married for 7 years. I don’t think they’d ask a white woman that.